I grew up in a family filled with divorce, sadly. My parents divorced. Aunts and uncles divorced. There were ex-husbands, ex-wives, new partners, step siblings, new children, cousins, blended families, and all the complicated relationships that come with families changing shape. I wasn’t privy to the adult conversations behind the scenes. I’m sure the exes were sometimes vilified, and I’m sure there were feelings and conflicts I never saw. But when family gatherings happened,